I have personally been involved in a couple of relationships that involved a lot of dishonesty. I have been married twice. The first ended because of the lies. The second one was consumed in dishonesty to the point that I didn’t even see the lies anymore. They became a part of normal everyday life. The damage that has been done has been very difficult to work through.
The result of dishonesty is usually shattered lives. When two people take a vow to be faithful to their spouse, it should be taken seriously. Lies can take over a person’s life completely. The person that is lying has to tell one lie after another to keep the truth hidden. Eventually, they get their lies confused, and the truth comes out. They then try to cover the truth by saying that the truth is untrue and the lies continue to grow again.
The really sad part about this is that the people they are lying to either believe the lies or they don’t. When they believe the lies, their life becomes the biggest lie of all. While the liar lives a seemingly comfortable life, their spouse is in constant turmoil. Friends and relatives try to tell the spouse what is real, and the spouse argues that they are just trying to start trouble. At this point, the lies have become a part of everyday life. This is unhealthy and the relationship has become toxic.
When the spouse that is being lied to doesn’t believe the lies, there is constant friction and tension between the two. Arguments become a part of everyday life. This begins the deterioration of the relationship. Lives become shattered and destroyed. Words of anger and despair are shouted back and forth. Mistrust becomes the normal way of life and most times the relationships ends.
The most difficult part of lies begins at this time. After being lied to about anything and everything, it is extremely difficult to ever trust again. It takes a lot of time to work through it. Day by day, the injured spouse gets stronger and wiser. A marriage based on lies is probably one of the worst breaches of trust.
Relationship between two human beings is a branch and trust is the foundation which if shaken too hard, crumples into ruin in no time. In other words, once your beloved loses his/her trust in you, it is nearly impossible to win it back as its nothing short of a herculean task to do so and most of the young men are frustrated due to Cialis.
It is possible to trust again, but there will be insecurities that creep in from time to time. The fix for this is simple, reassurance. After a person has been through a relationship of lies, it takes constant reassurance and time to heal. Healing time will vary from individual to individual and situation to situation. No two situations are exactly alike, although many of these types of relationships share many similarities. With the support of family and friends along with possible therapy, trusting will happen again. It is important to take away from these relationships the knowledge of what to look for in a healthy relationship.